What is the collaborative divorce process?
Collaborative law is a process in which both parties, along with their specially trained solicitors, work together to reach an agreement that benefits everyone involved, especially any children.
The collaborative process encourages open, honest discussions, with both parties working together to find fair and mutually beneficial solutions.
Unlike traditional litigation, which can be adversarial and stressful, collaborative law focuses on open communication and mutual problem-solving.
How does the collaborative process work?
The collaborative process involves each party instructing a collaborative lawyer and entering into a participation agreement, which commits to resolving issues without court proceedings.
The collaborative process involves you and your former partner sitting down with your collaborative lawyers in the same room to try and work things out face-to-face instead of exchanging letters.
You will have a series of structured meetings where everyone works together to find solutions for both parties.
What are the benefits of the collaborative process?
Collaborative law can help separating couples reduce the emotional and financial strain that can come with litigation by working together in a non-adversarial environment.
As part of the collaborative process, other neutral professionals, such as financial advisors, family consultants, or pension experts, can be brought into the joint meetings to address specific areas of your divorce, provide expert guidance, and ensure that discussions remain productive.
This approach can help separating couples maintain a positive relationship post-separation, especially when children are involved.
You will have the benefit of your own independent legal adviser, but you can set the agenda to discuss the things that matter most to you and your family.
With the support of trained professionals, we can help you navigate this difficult time in a way that prioritises your family's needs.
Our Collaborative Lawyers
At Myerson, our experienced Family Law team is here to support you throughout the collaborative process.
Jane Tenquist and Sarah Whitelegge are specially trained Collaborative Lawyers dedicated to helping clients navigate separation and divorce with dignity, compassion, and cooperation.
Together, they provide expert legal advice while ensuring open communication and mutual respect remain at the heart of every discussion, helping clients find amicable resolutions that prioritise their family’s unique needs.
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Meet Our Collaborative Divorce Lawyers
Jane Tenquist and Sarah Whitelegge are specially trained collaborative lawyers dedicated to helping clients navigate separation and divorce with dignity and compassion.
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